Miles is 7 years old and he does not ever talk about my Lyme disease, though I know it must be incredibly hard for him. He is the most mature little boy for his age and he always has been. He never participated in imagination-type-play, because, as he stunningly put it to me at around 3 1/2 or 4 years old, "Mommy, why would I pretend that? It's not real and it won't actually happen!" This same child raised over $1,500 for Haiti last year after the earthquake, of his own accord, by selling his artwork! Of course I am biased, but he is a very special little boy!
Though he's very intellectual, expressing his feelings is a huge struggle for him. What strikes me most about his Mother's Day picture is that I'm smiling at him with a heart over top of me, and he is frowning at me, although he has a heart in front of him, too. He is extremely stoic for a boy of his age, so in a way, it is a relief to see that he found a way through his art to express his sadness over my illness.
Despite the melancholy tone of the picture, it's indescribably beautiful to me and I proudly hung it up on my wall. It is the most wonderful Mother's Day present I could have ever received from him! Next Mother's Day, I hope to receive a picture just like it, but with my son smiling and his mama no longer in bed!
That's terribly sweet.
ReplyDeleteOut of sheer curiosity, where is he going to school? I signed Gwen up for MLA's preschool next fall.
I wrote you back on Facebook, Courtney. :)
ReplyDeleteI totally love that picture...best of all I love what he wrote..how sweet...plus it looks like he has you wrapped up in a cocoon..lol..cherish that picture forever...and I also hope next year (this year too) that you will be out of bed...love aunt connie
ReplyDelete"If I was really small..." Oh baby boy, you're so sweet. And it's kind of like he was playing make-believe right there...or at least speaking hypothetically which is the adult version of make-believe.
ReplyDeleteI love this, but it also sad! Love, Mom
ReplyDeleteSad as it makes you feel, you must be so proud too and it is such a blessing he could draw this out.....Some day, Alyson...some day things will change for all of you!
ReplyDelete"germs, go away!" - this mother's day card is uncle kenneth-approved.
ReplyDeleteGod bless
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